Learning how to make a guy fall for you starts with him getting to know the real you through the dating process.
But are there hidden mysteries about how to get a guy to ask you out that enable some women to secure a date any time they want?
You've smiled at him. You've given him the whole set of timeless body language indicators like batting your eyelashes and tinkering with your hair as you lean in close to him.
You've complimented him and playfully teased him. You've donned that low-cut camisole, slipped on a very cute mini skirt, dropped your pencil on the floor, and even leaned over to pick it up while he watched.
But he still won't make the first move and ask you out on a date. What else does he expect you to do?
Keep reading to find out how to get the guy you want when nothing seems to be working.
No matter what you do, there's always the chance a man won't recognize your flirting signals. When you really feel like you've tried all sorts of things and nothing is working, you may need to take matters into your own hands.
You might need to make direct statements like, "I like you" or "We should go out sometime". Many guys would rather get a root canal than be rejected by a woman. Using direct statements in your conversations can help him feel at ease so he has the confidence to approach you and ask you to go out with him.
You can even get him thinking about you all day by giving these statements a flirty twist. This is how it's done.
When you're about to walk away after having a great conversation with him, take a couple steps away and then turn back around and say something like, "Ya know, if you ever wanted to go do something together, we could make it a date." Then, give him a cute smile and continue walking away. If he's at all interested, he'll probably walk away with a big grin on his face and you'll be on his mind until the next time he sees you.
Or, better yet, don't wait around for him to ask you out. Take charge and ask him to go do something with you.
Sometimes you just have to take charge to get the things you want in life...including men.
The worst that happens is he says no. And while it can temporarily hurt knowing he doesn't feel the same way, it most definitely doesn't mean you're not worthy of love or that you won't find the right guy for you. Don't let it make you feel like you're not good enough.
It's better to know one way or another than to have to constantly wonder whether he likes you or not. The right guy will take the opportunity to get to know you. You won't have to convince him that you're the right girl for him.
Keep in mind, it's his loss if he fails to see what an amazing, fun, beautiful girl you truly are. He's not the only guy you'll ever be attracted to, and the right guy will notice, appreciate, and love you just the way you are.
Learning how to get a guy to ask you out sometimes comes down to being brave, strong, and assertive.
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